Don't date coworkers you loses.

[PantsAndSandals]

So the other day I asked this girl (she 19 and I'm 23) I have been flirting with at work for while out to eat. She said yes even though she has a boyfriend which I think is over obsessive. pick the girl up after she clocked out for work and the first thing she said was I need a cigarette . I let her have one outside of my car because I hate smoking and I hate it even worse in my expensive caddy with the leather interior so smoking is off limits.
As soon as we get to Denny's the food of choice she has to smoke again so I sit with her in the freezing cold and talk with her. Eventually we go inside and we get some food. She got a salad and I got a chicken sandwich. We talked mostly of boyfriend and how she was probably going to leave him as that was going on she was constantly texting him and my best friend at work for some odd reason.

After eating she wanted to go to my house to fool around, but before having another cigarette outside denny's. We kissed in the car. During the drive home she is still texting her bf and my friend. As soon as she gets to my house shes has yet another cigarette. Eventually we go inside and we go to my room and I turn on the tv and Jurassic park III is playing. I lay down in my bed and she sits at the edge of it sill texting her boyfriend and my friend. So as a guy I get back up and tried getting her in the mood but she is stiff and refused to lay down with me so I lay back down watching this god awful movie.

Eventually I get up to go to the bathroom and when I go back she was laying down on my bed with no cell phone in hand. So I cuddly and talk with her and she rolls on top of me and she kisses me while I am feeling her up and shes says you can't tell anyone. So I was like well I am going to tell my friends and she kisses me again and tells me she can't do this because she wants my friend so she gets off me and she tells me she likes my friend which is 18, fat, goofy looking, poor and drives a minivan.

After I ask her if she wants to go home and she said yes. So right now I was pissed I had put up with the smoking, the constantly talking about her boyfriend, texting all night and now my ex friend convinced her on the phone not to sleep with me and to be with him. So before having yet again another cigarette outside in which I stayed in my car she hopped in and I said not one word to her and dropped her off at her house and she gave me a hug and said sorry.

Finally I drove home alone, I had major blue balls, I spent money on food and gas, I lost her, and my friend which she is currently fucking. Thank god I still have my job but have to see the both of them every day at work. So the moral of my story is don't date your coworkers other wise this shit could happen to you.

[simon]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: So the moral of my story is don't date your coworkers other wise this shit could happen to you.

That shit can happen to you when you aren't at work too.

[SatanHam]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: Jurassic park III is playing

sucks yo be u.

[Lucy]

This happens with anyone. Dont fuck your co-workers, especially when you also work with their girlfriend.

[DroopyA]

HOw much pussy do you get compared to your friend?

If you get laid more then he does, you should gladly give this one to him. That's what friends do, they look out for each other.

If he gets more pussy then you, he's an asshole and you should tell him right after you break his nose. Might want to find a new job first... that way you can walk out with him being a bloody mess on the floor and never come back.

[HeartbreakHoldout]

Sounds like you were asking for it really. If you're going to go for someone who already is in a relationship, you obviously can't rely on them to be exclusive with you.
That's why I think the title of this topic should be, "Don't date disloyal whores".

[TheLameSauce]

you didn't really "date" her now did you? you took her on one date. and honestly, you dodged a mammoth bullet because she's probably a selfish bitch. i mean, what do you imagine she was texting her boyfriend the whole time? "still at work :(", "catching dinner with a coworker. c u l8r". no. that's no good.

[OneWordName]

You really asked her out, even after the billionth sign not to?

She's your coworker. She smokes, which you hate. She has a boyfriend. She is willing to cheat on her boyfriend.

You were freaking asking for it.

[EvilJesus]

But is she hot?

[JadeTheAssassin]

Ok, ok. Let me get this shit straight.

She was in communication with her boyfriend.
You were trying to mack on her.
You guys make out for a bit.
Your friend cockblocks you and now she wants him.

...

Does she have like, any willpower or anything so she doesn't seem like a gigantic ho who cheats on her boyfriend without a whim?

Jesus Christ.

[JadeTheAssassin]

Also, I think it was a bad idea in the first place for you to hit on her when she was still with her boyfriend.

[D3NTATUS]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: shes says you can't tell anyone.

woops!

[Lost-Chances]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: So I was like well I am going to tell my friends

You are a fucking failure and an embarrassment to anyone who possess a dick between their legs.

[Shnam]

But Jurassic Park 3 is the best one!

[andhination]

My parents were coworkers.

Date your coworkers, you could end up deeply in love, married and with children of which only 1 was an accident.

Yes, that was me. :(

[ragingfred]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: As soon as we get to Denny's hug and said sorry.

there's your biggest mistake. sorry though.

[Jon4life]

If they have a boyfriend (or girlfriend) I think that is the sign you probably should stay off of them until they are single.

[ZeldaFreak701]

This sort of thing can happen whether they're a coworker or not. And that's impossible because I'm dead serious, all Gamestop employees date in the company like 75% of the time. 3 of my boyfriends have come from there. As for you, I'm sorry for your loss. But don't go for a chick that smokes. It's just nasty.

[YourFutureMaster]

This thread written by Funkbrs the Great contains the answer that you seek.

[Meepster]

I learned the easy way.

[BUTANE]

Sounds like you thik too highly of yourself, maybe she isnt inturested in you "caddy" and fancy leather seats...maybe she likes people who aren't douche bags, people like your friend.

[jds74]

thank you?
for the...advice?

[Pugberto]

At 3/11/09 05:05 PM, JadeTheAssassin wrote: Ok, ok. Let me get this shit straight.

She was in communication with her boyfriend.
You were trying to mack on her.
You guys make out for a bit.
Your friend cockblocks you and now she wants him.

I'm with Jade completely on this one, texting in front of people when you're meant to be paying attention to them is rude and doing constantly is just offensive. Considering on top of all this that it is actually a date which makes it more offensive and then of course adding in the fact that it's her boyfriend she's texting. Long story short is that she's a bitch and you wasted your time with her and your conception of dating coworkers is miss lead because you've only ever had one experience.

[Judzfell]

Haha, When girls text when they chill with me, I usually tell them to get the fuck outta my house.

[Biscuit-head]

She's into you, so keep flirting. The same thing happened to me, but I didn't keep trying and I lost my chance with a girl I was actually able to talk to.

You just have to make yourself more desirable. And with a car like that, you'll have a hard time not getting the looks...

seriously though, don't date co-workers.

[CanadianSnowman]

Serves you right for trying to take another man's woman.

[slothfromabove]

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote:

:So the moral of my story is don't date 19 year old girls who want to take you for a ride

fixed...

[Biscuit-head]

At 3/24/09 12:51 PM, slothfromabove wrote:

At 3/11/09 01:28 PM, PantsAndSandals wrote: So the moral of my story is don't date 19 year old girls who want to take you for a ride

fixed...

Fixed better.

[Igotaname13]

Holy shit 5 evils in a row replied.

My dad does this and they are all fat while he's 6 foot and real skinny.

that shit is just scary

D:

[XwaynecoltX]

Its probably best not to date co-workers but after you finish school thats a place where it does happen.

~X~