At 4/25/10 06:26 PM, SpiffyMasta wrote:
How does that dynamic work in the Canadian Forces? Personally I don't have any problems with gays, although I think the dynamics of manly bonding in the military might be a little awkward in one of the guys is openly gay...
I also do believe in marriage being between a man and a woman because marriage is a religious thing. If you want to have a union you can deal with the government about it. More than welcome to it, but it's not gonna be a wedding. Separation of church and state in my opinion.
The dynamic works rather well. I mean, I'm a bisexual woman in the infantry, but I get along perfectly fine with the men, who still make up the majority of the combat arms. I've worked with a few gay guys, and everyone else didn't act any different for the most part, except the occasional joke which is gonna happen. As Peregrinus said, in the field it doesn't matter, you just do your job.
The marriage thing I think is a debate for another place. I agree with separation of church and state, but marriage isn't just Christian or religious. Anyway, nough about that.
At 4/26/10 04:33 PM, michelinman wrote:
At 4/25/10 07:11 PM, Peregrinus wrote:
There is an openly gay guy in my battalion. He is capable of doing the same tasks as anyone else. So sure, every so often we make jokes, but when we're in the field, he's the guy protecting your back.
In B4 THAT AIN'T AMERICAN! Seriously though, I don't know how I'd react to it, because I've never been in that situation obviously. I could imagine it would be uncomfortable in the field getting dressed and shit in front of him, but so long as he was a respectful guy and was openly gay, but wasn't you know, all in your face about it, I can't see how it would bother me.
Thing is, Peregrinus isn't American, so I don't think he really cares if ain't American.
Though, I understand your nervousness about changing in front of someone who could be attracted to you. I get that all the time, but really, I deal with it. There was very little sexual tension in my section, and we all got along great.