I've seen both vids, they say BME is not real and the SpankWire one supposedly is. SW looked real IMO, BME didn't, the camera had weird lighting and contrast which makes it seem edited.
I also went on the "offended" site. It wasn't that bad, most look too fake to cause any disarray, but in the end I was offended. I don't care about any amount or cutting or blood or shit, but putting sick babies on there is just mean. There were a few pictures of babies with the disease harlequin ichthyosis, and while they do look very abnormal and not human that is still someones child who is very likely going to die in just a few hours or even minutes. That being said, I am surprised they didn't feature babies with anencephaly (born with little or no brain).