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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 02:19 PM Reply

that sucks man
just give it some time and become good friends with her
then, when they break up, you are the rebound


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 02:22 PM Reply

At 2/7/09 11:14 PM, Eatsalottagrass wrote: Here's the story.
I met this AMAZING girl about 4 months ago. Well, I never really talked to her for about 2 months, because I was shy. She is just a simply beautiful girl. Well, I grew a pair, and started talking to her and getting to know her better (Which was pretty hard, because she's very anti-social). She started talking to me more, and I started taking her places, and whatnot. So about 2 weeks ago I asked her out and she said she'll think about it. Well 4 days ago she told me she was also in love with my BEST FRIEND.
This meant, she had to decide between us two. Well, today we had made plans to go to the movies, Me, My best friend, and the girl (Brianna). Just a friendly get together.
Sadly, I couldn't make it, as much as I wanted to, Because I had no cash.
So it was just My bestfriend and Brianna.
After the movie ended, my best friend called me and this was our conversation...
Me:Whatsup?
Him:Nothing much, we just finished watching Coraline.
Me: Was it good?
Him: Meh, It was alright.
Him: So, I was sitting on the steps to the movie theater and she was holding my arm and I had asked her out and she said "Well, I'm sitting here with my arms around you, of course we're dating" and I told her I was just making sure.

I was speechless. My bestfriend, who did absolutely NOTHING to build a relationship with her won her over me.
I feel so fucking terrible.
I don't even know what to do.... (Im not gonan An Hero)

tl;dr: My friend won a girl over me without even doing anything.

Ten bucks says your friends got loads more confidence than you. Probably doesn't even think about the fuckin relationship. First tip of getting the girl: You can't coddle her and be her friend for months at a time. That's called the friendzone. Ask her out in 3 weeks tops or she'll overthink it and your fucked. Doesn't matter anyway though highschool stuff is highschool stuff wait till college for any kind of commitment just go do chicks in highschool.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:07 PM Reply

Well thats fucked.. If i were you i would cuss him out But thats just me thats really cold that she and he would do that did he know you really liked her?


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:11 PM Reply

good luck with that

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:12 PM Reply

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssss....let the HATE floooooooooooooow through youuuuuuu...


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:14 PM Reply

Oh must be really bad thing dude.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:17 PM Reply

maybe once your balls drop and u grow some pubes you'll not get rejected so much. it hilarious how kids get all fucking worked up about "dating" the opposite sex

i wish it was as easy as a note that says "do you like me? yes or no"
lmao, u pussies have it easy


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:22 PM Reply

It's life. I know it sucks, I've benn there. But you know what? Your friend's a dick, the girls's a slut, now you can move on and forget about these disgusting people. Find another girl. And if she comes crying back to you, she had her chance and she blew it. That's all.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:31 PM Reply

she's just a a girl, don't let her take over your life, she made her decision and now she decided to date with your best friend.
you can still talk to her and say how she's important to you all what you'll be able to do is to accept her answer....
you should be happy for your friend too...

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:33 PM Reply

Thats what happens when you get in the friend zone.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:51 PM Reply

She likes him more than you.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:53 PM Reply

life just sucks, doesn't it?

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:57 PM Reply

who wants to play a game?


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 03:58 PM Reply

Your friend is a whore. Disown him and cast his soul into the abyss.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 04:04 PM Reply

It's because he's better-looking.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 04:03 PM Reply

At 2/7/09 11:14 PM, Eatsalottagrass wrote: I had no cash.

And there's your problem.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 04:59 PM Reply

At 2/8/09 03:22 PM, iMiserable wrote: It's life. I know it sucks, I've benn there. But you know what? Your friend's a dick, the girls's a slut, now you can move on and forget about these disgusting people.

Wait a minute, she's a slut? So she goes sleeping around with a bunch of random people? Or is it because she rejected the topic maker?

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 05:20 PM Reply

At 2/8/09 03:12 PM, jack231 wrote: yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssss....let the HATE floooooooooooooow through youuuuuuu...

You inspire me.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 05:28 PM Reply

At 2/7/09 11:14 PM, Eatsalottagrass wrote: My bestfriend, who did absolutely NOTHING to build a relationship with her won her over me.

That's the rules of the road. It happens to the best and worst of us. Just know that there are billions of more girls out there, and that you'll find the one who makes you even more happy than Brianna did.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 05:32 PM Reply

Yay, one more male that has realized women are whores. (For the most part, not all of them.)

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 05:33 PM Reply

At 2/8/09 01:53 PM, Saku-Tatsuya wrote:
Because every girl who chooses someone over someone else is automatically a whore. Screw the fact that "Whore" or "Prostitiute" is a woman who engages into sexual acts for money.

I think you seriously misunderstood what I'm saying, which says you may be a virgin for life. Women like it when men try to take control and tell them that they are the only man for them and stuff, they find it a turn on. Sounds weird, but it's true.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 05:39 PM Reply

she never liked you anyways.

you probably didn't either.

you just wanted to bone her.

she wanted a guy who she can shit on.

if someone ever says they can't decide on who tehy like then:

A - they are retarded.
B - they don't like you. at least, enough. if you REALLY want to justify it to yourself.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 06:20 PM Reply

I know how you feel man but you can't let this shit get to you, it'll ruin your life
It almost happened to me but I got past it, just go to the gun range or something to take the anger off you


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 06:24 PM Reply

Kick his bony ass.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 08:21 PM Reply

I think you seriously misunderstood what I'm saying, which says you may be a virgin for life. Women like it when men try to take control and tell them that they are the only man for them and stuff, they find it a turn on. Sounds weird, but it's true.

I quoted the wrong person.
I wasn't aiming it at you, but another person.
And no, not all women like it. I can say so myself that not all of us like being controlled.

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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 08:31 PM Reply

I don't think your best friend knew about your crush. You should've told him.

Also, go watch Sarah Marshall. That might help.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 09:11 PM Reply

At 2/8/09 08:21 PM, Saku-Tatsuya wrote:
I quoted the wrong person.
I wasn't aiming it at you, but another person.

Ah, my apologies then.

And no, not all women like it. I can say so myself that not all of us like being controlled.

That's true, and that's the problem with social sciences, you're always wrong by a certain percent. Most women I speak to find that stuff a turn on though.


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Response to Guys, I'm really hurt... Feb. 8th, 2009 @ 09:44 PM Reply

I think you need a explanation of how the American woman view love.

You Friend
(have no money) (has money)

This was why she started to date your friend

This how shallow the average teenager views love. Just be lucky you are not near her any more.