Heartache...

[Aliensandwich]

Ugh, I HATE this feeling!
There's a girl who I have been in love with for the past year. She likes everything that I like (videogames etc) and is very nice. On top of all of that, she is BEAUTIFUL. I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want to ask her out. I am planning to when she turns 16 (due to her religious faith) and I have been waiting almost a year. She told her best friend that she would even go out with me if I asked! We talk on AIM for over 7 hours on the weekend, I've been to her house, we have gone to the movies multiple times, and I give her gifts which she is very thankful for.

Lately she has been kind of different. Due to school she has been very tired, and irritable. She says things that she doesn't mean, and is less enthusiastic when we talk. She apologizes and stuff, and I know she doesn't mean what she says but it still hurts, especially since I've had to try VERY hard to win this girl over, and I've been patient for almost a year.

I doubt any of you care, but can you give me some REAL advise. It may sound kind of stupid that I'm complaining about something that can be fixed, but I'm still sad.

I know I'm asking for a lot here, but can I have some genuine answers? What do you guys do when you have a heartache?
I don't want to see replies such as "SHEZ FUCKIN ANOTHER GUY" "JUST FUCK HER!" or "GROW A PAIR U EMO LOL" because you will look like an idiot.

[PersonalInformation]

im just posting to point out the obvious..
carry on..

[DrClay]

let her go for a while, she might need some space. after a while give a call and see how she is doing

or maybe she just doesn't like you that much...

[OneLastCaress]

just hope she gets passed the stage of being irritable.

[BeyondReason]

Well, have you talked to her friends about how she is acting lately? Do you have any guesses why she is actting this way?

But mainly if you do really like her you should try to help her and find out whats wrong.

[OneLastCaress]

At 2/7/09 12:23 AM, OneLastCaress wrote: just hope she gets passed the stage of being irritable.

past*
God damn, I am fuckin tired as shit.

[EyelessArchfiend]

Her "religious faith," huh...

That means no poon-tang and a hell of a lot of annoying...

But hey, if that's what your into, ask her out!

[jds74]

wait it out?
all I can suggest
then again girls are confusing me so much I'm in no position to give good advice

[KAG8893]

At 2/7/09 12:19 AM, Aliensandwich wrote:

She told her best friend that she would even go out with me if I asked!

what does this mean?

[MultiCanimefan]

You know, I've devised a theory for threads such as these.

Now, stay with me on this, people.

The topic starter knows for a fact that this is NewGrounds yet asks for serious advice. Now, this leads me to conclude that he's either full of shit(MOST LIKELY LOL) or suffering from some delusion caused by his distraught state of mind leading him to believe that this site is actually chock full of supporting people. Heartache must take such a toll on someone regarding a relaionship that they would even consider asking NewGrounds for assistance.

Tl;dr OP is an idiot.

Also, JUST FUCK HER.

[EyelessArchfiend]

At 2/7/09 12:34 AM, KAG8893 wrote:

She told her best friend that she would even go out with me if I asked!

what does this mean?

Are you serious? She told her best friend she would go out with him... What is there not to understand?

[Permanent]

Not to be rude, but where in your situation does heartache come in?

From what you've given us, it just looks like you're whining.

[Sensationalism]

She'll probably be less stressed in the summer.
I just don't get involved, that way I can't get hurt.
GOOD LUCK with her.

[RedDreadSky]

I'd ask her what's going on, without complicating things and generating more drama.

Because 90% of the time, what girls are stressed about is drama.

[Shakyjake]

At 2/7/09 12:19 AM, Aliensandwich wrote: and is less enthusiastic when we talk.

Does she initiate the conversations or is it always you?

[Proottalfain]

At 2/7/09 12:38 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote: You know, I've devised a theory for threads such as these.

Now, stay with me on this, people.

The topic starter knows for a fact that this is NewGrounds yet asks for serious advice. Now, this leads me to conclude that he's either full of shit(MOST LIKELY LOL) or suffering from some delusion caused by his distraught state of mind leading him to believe that this site is actually chock full of supporting people. Heartache must take such a toll on someone regarding a relaionship that they would even consider asking NewGrounds for assistance.

Tl;dr OP is an idiot.

Also, JUST FUCK HER.

I think it's the delusion. I remember when I had a heartache I would just feel like confessing to any stranger that I would encounter. You just feel so despaired that you think it just doesn't matter anymore.

@OP: If I were you, I'd wait and finally she would forget about you and go over you.

But if YOU were ME, I'd ask her out seriously and if she brings the "omgz liek relijews faith lolzorz" I'd tell her to choose between Jesus or me. But that last thing would intend you would have to grow balls.

[Proottalfain]

At 2/7/09 12:47 AM, Proottalfain wrote: @OP: If I were you, I'd wait and finally she would forget about you and go over you.

But if YOU were ME, I'd ask her out seriously and if she brings the "omgz liek relijews faith lolzorz" I'd tell her to choose between Jesus or me. But that last thing would intend you would have to grow balls.

Oops I haven't been very clear. What I meant is that if I were you, I'd do just like you're doing, since I'd have your brain. But if you had my brain, you'd do like in the second paragraph. Should've replaced the "I"s with "you"s.

[Gagsy]

It's not love, it'd a crush.

The moment you realise this, the moment you can begin to recover.

Like Tango it takes two to fall in love, if your feelings for her aren't returned you can't begin to know what it's like to be in love. One day you will though, so get over her and you can begin to find someone you have a chance of being happy with. She seems to have lost interest in you so don't make her hate you by not leaving her alone when she doesn't want to talk.

[MultiCanimefan]

At 2/7/09 12:47 AM, Proottalfain wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:38 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:

I think it's the delusion. I remember when I had a heartache I would just feel like confessing to any stranger that I would encounter. You just feel so despaired that you think it just doesn't matter anymore.

I can honestly see that. Confessing to anyone, even a stranger is helpful.

[Permanent]

At 2/7/09 12:51 AM, RKThrilla wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:45 AM, Shakyjake wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:19 AM, Aliensandwich wrote: and is less enthusiastic when we talk.

Does she initiate the conversations or is it always you?

^this..

Your predicament sounds a lot like mine I had a while ago, it will end tragically.

Why?

Why, did I laugh?

[Shakyjake]

At 2/7/09 12:53 AM, Permanent wrote: Why?

Why, did I laugh?

Because you're a cold heartless bastard.

=p

[Proottalfain]

At 2/7/09 12:53 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:47 AM, Proottalfain wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:38 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:

I think it's the delusion. I remember when I had a heartache I would just feel like confessing to any stranger that I would encounter. You just feel so despaired that you think it just doesn't matter anymore.

I can honestly see that. Confessing to anyone, even a stranger is helpful.

That is not what I said. I said I felt like doing so. As in I wanted to do so. I don't think it would help though, because the other person might just be "WTF???". If you actually get a comprehensive stranger it will help, else it's only gonna make it worse.

[Judzfell]

heres some helpful advise
love is a fairytale
your bound to have good times, then like a banshee, the girl will rip out your heart
and not care..
avoid this, fuck n chuck, i swear, is the best method.

[Proottalfain]

At 2/7/09 12:57 AM, Judzfell wrote: heres some helpful advise
love is a fairytale
your bound to have good times, then like a banshee, the girl will rip out your heart
and not care..
avoid this, fuck n chuck, i swear, is the best method.

Only 16 years old and already tired of love. What purpose is there to live other than love? Money? Success? what's success when there is no one to admire you for it? Helping others? Helping who? people you don't love?

[AnonymousAlchemist]

Dude, I know how you feel. Right now, the girl I want to fuck (sorry, I meant, want to have relations with (and not just sexual)) currently has a boyfriend (I think. Long story short, my friends keep telling me different names of her "supposed" boyfriend. I know, they're probably lying).

Do what I'm going to do. I have a military ball (dance, you perverts) coming up. I am going to give her some chocolates, some flowers, and ask her to the military ball on Friday (that's the last time I see her for that week).

You might want to do that, only ask her to some other romantic outing (perhaps, your school has a dance?).

I doubt she'll say yes. To me, I mean. It sounds like you're halfway into her pants already.

[Judzfell]

At 2/7/09 01:00 AM, Proottalfain wrote: Only 16 years old and already tired of love. What purpose is there to live other than love? Money? Success? what's success when there is no one to admire you for it? Helping others? Helping who? people you don't love?

Eh, i've had my share of love, lasted a year.
had my heart broken so bad, i dont feel much anymore.
so i live for me, and life now is pretty good. no more worries.
though, i understand this is not for everyone.
this is just my advice

[cody66]

"SHEZ FUCKIN ANOTHER GUY" "JUST FUCK HER!" or "GROW A PAIR U EMO LOL"

[tormented-soul]

At 2/7/09 12:52 AM, Gagsy wrote: It's not love, it'd a crush.

The moment you realise this, the moment you can begin to recover.

Like Tango it takes two to fall in love, if your feelings for her aren't returned you can't begin to know what it's like to be in love. One day you will though, so get over her and you can begin to find someone you have a chance of being happy with. She seems to have lost interest in you so don't make her hate you by not leaving her alone when she doesn't want to talk.

First smart poster on this thread.

Listen man... no offense.. but there is no When Harry Met Sally stories out there... if she was interested n you in a romantic way it would have sparked months ago. Every girl I've ever been with... I knew there was a mutual attraction in the first 5 seconds.

Let go of the fantasy... she just wants to be your friend. It hurts, sure.

But you're like two steps from appearing psycho to her...

[MultiCanimefan]

At 2/7/09 12:55 AM, Proottalfain wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:53 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:47 AM, Proottalfain wrote:

At 2/7/09 12:38 AM, MultiCanimefan wrote:

can honestly see that. Confessing to anyone, even a stranger is helpful.

That is not what I said. I said I felt like doing so. As in I wanted to do so. I don't think it would help though, because the other person might just be "WTF???". If you actually get a comprehensive stranger it will help, else it's only gonna make it worse.

Thanks for clearing that up.

[Scary-Kids]

Funny thing is im dating a girl exactly like that!
Probably not the same one but those types of girls are a catch.

Stupid religion.
Keeping love from forming!!

And she was probably on the rag when she said those mean irritable things