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At 1/31/09 01:02 PM, ThoseSneakyFrench wrote: . I find that despicably hypocritical that these people would alienate her for committing an act that is nothing more than the cycle of life.

Well was she intending to have a child with this man, and spend the rest of her life taking care of and raising the child to it's fullest potential?

If not... Then it wasn't a part of the cycle of life. It was a hop in the bed with some guy she's been with for a year and a half, because she felt like it.


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I never quite understood that either, but then again having sex underage where I'm from isn't generally frowned upon in the first place. Not to say it's encouraged, but the people I know tend to be very liberal.

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Because you're too young to face the possible consequences. No 14 year old could care for a baby. I dont give a fuck if you use condoms or the girl is on the pill, you can still fucking get knocked up.


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*sigh* I dunno. I would say nothing. There are laws to prevent it, but I don't get that anyways.

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At 1/31/09 01:02 PM, ThoseSneakyFrench wrote: What's wrong with underage sex?

My answer would only be that most minors don't know what they are actually getting into, what it will do to them in the long run, and because most adolescents don't have a lot of self-control.

I'm a virgin, but I have noticed how different teens become after losing their virginity. They act and think much differently.

With hormones and lack of life experience, something as simple and natural as sex can turn from something good into something bad. True, this is not always the case, but it's also rare to see a teenager completely unaffected by having sex.

In short, it's because we are too immature.

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At 1/31/09 05:09 PM, Aci6 wrote:

Germany is 13 though.
That's pretty damn young, how developed is Germany? Mustn't be by much if they allow 13 year olds to have actual intercourse.
What a shitty government.

Age of consent doesn't matter anyways; nobody follows it.

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Because sex is supposed to be something sacred, but no one cares about that anymore. Underage sex still has its problems, like the girl getting pregnant which causes a fuckload of problems.


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At 1/31/09 04:32 PM, ThoseSneakyFrench wrote:

:Honestly, sex needs to be looked at not as a danger but as an expression of love, like it should be.

Ah but it won't because we have things such as porn stars and hookers.

I honestly don't care if two middle schoolers give it away before they find someone they plan to spend eternity with; but I do care if those same do fuckers end up reproducing. The Earth's population needs to be subracted from, not added to.

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I honestly think people who think underage sex is bad is retarded.

If it is like a chick flick in real life sort of deal where they make love after just a week or whatever then it is retarded, but when they know each other I think it shouldn't be a problem.

As long as they are 15+

Anyone who has sex when they are 14 or younger has problems.

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I agree with some posts here, and I'll give my two cents.

I think, that if both participants are above age, say, 16, and the guy has a decent job at that point, and can support the consequences of having a child, or in a worst case, more than one child, then I see no reason as to why it would be bad.

This is also a huge reason behind everything. Most guys who look for sexual relations before age 20+ generally don't have a job, and don't care, they're just looking for a good time. If that's the case, then yea, it could be bad.

I just think that if you're MATURE enough to handle it, then it's nobody else's business what you do with your life. But, like I said, I'd estimate that 70% of guys, or girls aged anywhere from 15-19 aren't necessarily ready for bad consequences, seeing as the guy probably doesn't have a job, and probably doesn't want to support a family.


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At 1/31/09 04:43 PM, TacoFreak wrote:
At 1/31/09 04:41 PM, Aci6 wrote:
At 1/31/09 01:48 PM, Sheizenhammer wrote: age of consent in belgium: 12
That just says a lot for their standards.
Cept that's bullshit. Age is actually 16.

Germany is 13 though.

Germany is 14, with other rules concerning people over 18.


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Well, when a girl is young as 13 per say, her body isn't physically ready to have intercourse.

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At 1/31/09 01:29 PM, GOTHCLAWZ wrote: I lost mine when I was 13, had sex a few times with that girl...

But haven't had any action for 2 years.

Since when was this a whore yourself out thread?

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I lol'ed at the fact that apparently only female/female sex is allowed. (yes I know, the illegal refers to anal sex)

It is curious how some countries allow female/female sex but don't allow male/male sex.

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I can't believe it, here in Belgium it's like a herioc deed to have done it, people show of with having committed adultery. It's amazing how things can differ on the other side of the planet.

Yet, I too believe that having sex is a special thing, but it's not a deed that needs to be shown off about. You share emotion and feelings in a unique way with your partner, something you shouldn't tell anyone else. It may compromise your privacy, or that of your partner.

I think people should just do it when they please at a conciderable age, protected of course, and that nobody should think anything bad about it. If they do, that's their problem but there's nothing they have to be able to do to stand in the way of life.

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Her peers jeer because they are queers and cant get none. So as they leer they hide their fears and make fun. Its a fact that you take. This shit is the work of those millions who propagate.

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What's wrong with underage sex? Well what isn't wrong with it?! Think about it people. A girl in highschool gets pregnant. Now she has two options the way i look at it. Talk to her mom about it and put the baby up for adoption or somethin, or keep it and have to drop out of school to take care of it. If you choose to keep it, your life is basically ruined. Just my opinion.

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At 1/31/09 01:03 PM, Zerok wrote: There's no simple answer. You'd have to wade through centuries of Western culture and sociological theory to come up with a good, articulated response.

Or you can go with the catholic response.

Besides the fact that it's illegal, sex was created to be had between a married man and woman. I could go on explaining it for pages but i'll leave it there.

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wait so how old is she when she lost her viginity?


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At 1/31/09 04:37 PM, TacoFreak wrote: Okay so in this thread there are mixed opinions on sexual intercourse with minors, but what do you guys think of handjobs, or even oral sex?

The chance of getting the girl pregnant are much lower, and the probabilityof passing STD's is also smaller. Yet you can say it's just as bad because it's like sex.

Opinions?

One thing leads to another.

Eventually they will want more than mere handjobs/blowjobs.

Deny them any sexual act I say!

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At 2/1/09 01:05 PM, MercatorMap wrote:
At 1/31/09 04:37 PM, TacoFreak wrote: Okay so in this thread there are mixed opinions on sexual intercourse with minors, but what do you guys think of handjobs, or even oral sex?

The chance of getting the girl pregnant are much lower, and the probabilityof passing STD's is also smaller. Yet you can say it's just as bad because it's like sex.

Opinions?
One thing leads to another.

Eventually they will want more than mere handjobs/blowjobs.

Deny them any sexual act I say!

What are you, some kind of ageist? You may be able to show me a fancy chart that shows adults have more self control, but that doesn't apply to every last one. To say otherwise is just stupid. If a couple wants to avoid the possibilities of sex but still pleasure each other, I don't see a problem with oral sex.


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There's nothing morally wrong with it, but kids should e focused on activities and things that are important and useful to them relative to their age.

Any person younger than 18(and maybe 17) should be focused on school and just having fun with their friends and/or other people their own age. Yes, they can date, but nothing beyond that. I just don't see a reason why they should have sex, you can argue that it's the "cycle of life blah blah blah" but if they're NOT HAVING CHILDREN then how is it a cycle of life? Yes, it is instinctual, but holy shit is it THAT important? Especially if something happens neither of you are prepared for? There's almost no such thing as a "mentally mature" person younger than 18 or 17 without regurgitating something their parents or pastor said.

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I think it should be entirely fine as long as they're not like 12 and have been dating for a good 6 months at least.

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Eh i wouldnt know since i dont have a dick.

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I would say typical law makers assume that teenagers are irresponsible, and won't wear a condom, get pregnant, and have a baby at 16, and their lives as artisans are virtually ruined.

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At 1/31/09 01:03 PM, Zerok wrote: There's no simple answer. You'd have to wade through centuries of Western culture and sociological theory to come up with a good, articulated response.

So says you.

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I love sex! I'm also underage, yeah, so there isn't anything wrong.


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haha this whole topic is pretty funny, where as most people have sex before they are 18.

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As as shes got the body needed there nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to under aged girls, unfortunately yes when im 30 I'll be attracted to 15 year old girls, but not 12 year olds


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