At 1/14/12 12:06 AM, Sequenced wrote:
She never blatantly told me no, and she gets flattered / embarrassed when I compliment her on something.
... And I was debating leaving it at that... But I feel I should be nice and explain the reasoning behind my support.
Girls are compliment whores, unless they're already conceited as all hell, the slightest compliment generally has the reaction you described.
What I'm trying to say is... Her being flattered/embarrassed is not a good way to judge if she's "into you" or not... In fact, it's one of the worst ways.
In my experience, the best way to tell is her physical mannerisms. If she seems overly eager to touch (And no, I don't mean that in a sexual manner), even if it's only the most insignificant gesture, if she does it a lot, that is a good sign that she may like you ("may" because some girls are just touchy feely all the time).
Other signs include, but are not limited to, playing with her hair, constant eye contact, she hits you (Assuming you didn't do anything to be a jackass, somewhat falls into physical contact), etc.. etc...
Other, less reliable signs include her fixing her bra/shirt often, sometimes this means she's trying to draw your attention to her, other times she may actually just be fixing her bra/shirt. She does something that would get some kind of reaction out of you, judging your character.
And probably others I've forgotten.
Point is, watching how she acts both mentally and physically can reveal a ton of hints on whether or not she's interested... It's just that it's easier to tell with the physical mannerisms (In my opinion anyways).