I went on a date with someone who others previous to my meeting them, declared the girl as 'lesbian'.
I don't think that is the case...
Sorry to hear about some of the tough luck/love being faced. Usually if something seems off, bail hard.
IE: Fatkid's situation.
Attended / attending some parties, dressed as a hipster for them. I dislike the overthe top aesthetic... but I keep hearing "you look really good" and "what is your costume?" Sad faic. Seriously considering adopting some of the look.
I think we those of us dressing up should post pictures.
/ I'm not a rapist.
Music as a magnet:
It works until they hear the music, or they say they like it even though you know they don't. I find it muddies things.