At 1/6/11 11:08 AM, Supersteph54 wrote:
At 1/6/11 10:45 AM, CosmicAlfonzo wrote:
I may have been joking when I made my post, but I seriously used to think I was an a-sexual.What I don't understand is why other people act so differently when around girls. Constantly trying to impress. It's absurd - in my opinion if you want someone to like you, you should act as yourself, not adopt a personality to cover who you are, something which I very regularly see. You can never actually talk to a friend of yours when there's a girl next to him.
Mainly because all the guys I know, all they talk about is woman, and they can't even have a conversation without staring at the ass of the girl walking by across the street. Compared to those people, I feel like an a-sexual. I'm attracted to minds more than bodies.
That and auto-fellatio.
Not only that, but another weird thing is that whenever I'm in the school van on the way home and a girl is walking, I see everyone around me turn their head to see how she looks, then what's even more ridiculous is when they 'rate' her...
"Shoot, I didn't manage to see her. How did she look?"
"I'd say 7/10 face, 8/10 body."
My definition of 'liking' somebody is because s/he is someone who you can trust and has a personality which you like, not whether her face and body achieve good scores from an absurd rating system. Sure, I can't imagine anyone liking someone who looks good to them but has a terrible personality, but I've never really understood the concept of wanting to be with someone because s/he looks good. Still, obviously I can't judge since I don't know what it feels like to have an attraction to someone.
Oh well, I've never really cared about this stuff and I'm glad I don't.
Your better off. People who oggle other people, and have minds that are consumed by that stuff tend to look really stupid from my point of view.
Sex is awesome, but it still doesn't consume my thought process. It isn't my primary motivation in life. 95% of the time, when one of the guys asks me if I saw that tight/thick/sexy/etc ass that walked by, I can't say that I did.
This is exactly why women hate me though, they find that sex is not an effective way to control me.
Speaking of women, every woman I've ever had a relationship with was either crazy, insanely stupid, a control freak, hopeless emotional bag of instability, or a combination of two or more of these attributes. I really only hold the control freak thing against them though. Love to me is freedom. That and blow jobs, lots of them.
One day I'll find a squishy bag of meat with an innie outie contracting sphinctery type of a hole that can tolerate me for being a godless immature crazy motherfucker with a stupid sense of humor.
If not, I've been mentally prepared for the single life for quite some time. I play electric guitar on stage like a beast, to the point where women actually buy ME beers(I never buy girls beer, I'm a cheap ass), and the first thing I do if I get a date nowadays is try to talk them out dating me by informing them of what a penniless, drunken, godless communist bastard I am.
The girl I'm seeing now passed the first date test.. She must be nuts, because I had drank a bottle of vodka before hand, and she still decided to stick with me after that.
But hey, I'm sick of dating girls who freak out and give me shit over saluting a fucking American flag because "saluting the flag if you weren't or aren't in the armed forces is disrespectful."