Not that I'm lesbian or anything, but I always hear, "That's so gaaaay," when people want to say that something is bad or ugly.
Shut up.
I am tired of people saying gay as a derogative. Say what you mean and don't send mixed messages. Say that it's ugly, stupid, bad or whatever but never say that it's gay. It's demeaning to do so and it's offensive towards homosexuals. It's almost like saying something is, I don't know, the n word. You'd never say that something is the n word because it's demeaning and offensive to the african community.
Saying something is gay, but you meant to derogate it, is just as bad as saying the n word.
knowing the NG community, I expect gay jokes.