To Faces: Let me show what I got out of the reply monocrom gave that you replied w/ the quote and be sure to tell me how you came up with something else.
At 4/13/06 02:45 AM, Monocrom wrote:
I can see the point that you guys are making about etiquette. But sometimes, it really is about preventing embarrassment or showing that a Teacher has done a poor job of teaching.
Okay, I can see how that may be wrong, but I ain't fuming off about it. I simply argue about it. First, it is the students decision to embarrass himself. Once he learns what not to do, he'll act differently when sparring, sparing himself from further embarrassment. If the teacher did not tell him to do it, then it is not his/her fault. If the teacher taught the student to charge at the foe and the student fails, then it would be his fault. If it is the teachers fault, then there is room for improvement, so there is something constructive coming out of an embarrassing moment. Still, I stress the point being made by "sometimes". Monocrom did not say that is why there is that rule in etiquette.
Case in point, there was a knife combatives class that was taught by an R.B.S.D. Instructor. One of the students was a veteran officer who bragged how he had taken several martial arts, he had taken numerous firearms courses, etc. (Basically he was being a know-it-all jerk). Not even paying attention to the Instructor....... The Instructor decided to have some fun with him. It was time to spar. The jerk was teamed up with the smallest woman in the class! Before they began, the Instructor pulled her aside and said, "I want you to pretend that your opponent is a child-rapist, and he's coming for your son. What are you going to do to stop him?" Or something similar to that. (Please keep in mind that she had no prior martial arts or self defense training. Also, all participants were using rubber training knives and lots of safety gear; including padding).
Well, when the match started, she let out a high-pitched scream, charged at the jerk, then slid on her knees, until her head was right at his crotch, and she just started stabbing upwards....... into his padded crotch!
Here was this veteran officer, many years of mixed martial arts training, passed numerous combat fireams courses............. and he got taken down by a determined & aggressive (and tiny) "attacker." Now if she had followed etiquette and not been briefed by the Instructor, chances are the outcome would have been different. Yeah that higher-ranked cop felt embarrassed, he also felt a bit angry that none of his particular martial arts instructors had prepared him for a determined & aggressive attacker. When he heard, "Let's spar," he just assumed that he would have time to take her down. Why? That was the etiquette that he was used to, when sparring. He just naturally assumed that since he was more experienced, she would hesitate and let him make the first move.
This is an example of what I meant by leaving etiquette out of sparring. This officer's previous martial arts training created bad habits. Bad habits that, had this been an actual attack, would have led to a very painful death! ......... Luckily, for the officer, after the match he was less of a jerk and more willing to listen to the Instructor; and the Instructor was still willing to teach him.
From that, I could find nothing else but an interesting story about how a jerk got his just desserts. However, it seems like you misinterpreted something about this reply. You said that Monocrom was trying to prove that "the elder martial artist is superior". Either I can't see two feet in front of my head, or I have seen no mention by Monocrom even suggesting that this statement was true. Mono actually seemed like he was reversing his opinion on the etiquette of sparring when he wrote this reply. Also, in your rant about Monocrom, you mentioned that "YOU DON'T TRY AND KILL SOMEBODY IN A SPARRING MATCH, BUT YOU... OR ATLEAST I TRY AND KILL SOMEBODY IN A REAL F*****G FIGHT". I think you didn't make your point about how mono was saying that an elder is superior. I didn't realize you had that in mind. Also, may be you knew this, maybe you don't:
1)R.B.S.D. probably spars in a realistic stlye, meaning it may look like a fight to the death.
2)The woman was not actually trying to kill the cop, she was attacking him as if she were protecting her child.
So, what did you mean by that quoted statment? I am having trouble understanding why you said these things and how mono was trying to prove whatever you thought he was trying to prove. If you could elaborate, that would be helpful. I am clueless and a crappy interpreter of "deeper meanings" and implications, so forgive me.