At 9/29/09 10:58 PM, Proteas wrote:
You asked how it could be bad for people, I cited instances of very real situations in real life
I didn't ask you how people react to swearing, I asked you evidence that the very act of swearing or hearing swear words, regardless of what other people think, is bad for someone.
No, the question was, and I quote; "List all the horrible scars you have from seeing this and explain to me how it damaged you as a person," and I answered you.
Yeah you answered by saying it bothered you so little that YOU FORGOT ABOUT IT.
You can't base what's normal and abnormal behavior of a human on laws and customs.
What would you use it on, then?
On what functional humans have in common maybe?
How come some really normal people swear a lot and some really normal people don't? Doesn't that hint that swearing is a non-factor in the development of a person? In which case, why the hell should it be regulated?
People bitch about cigarettes and alcohol being taxed when they're scientifically shown to KILL YOU SLOWLY but they let it slide when swearing, a completely benign habit, is censored?
At 9/30/09 01:43 AM, SteveGuzzi wrote:
Laws and customs are based on what's normal and abnormal human behavior.
Every country has different laws.
That's weird, I thought all humans were the same species.
So, what you're saying is... human laws should not have anything to do with human behavior.
No, I'm saying laws should not be based on things that are cultural and have no scientific basis.
Give me the science. Give me the studies.
Give me a fucking break with this shit.
NOOOOOO, FACTS! ARRRR IT BURNS
Um, no. There's a difference between being ignorant of local laws and customs and being in blatant disregard of local laws and customs.
Yes, but you have to figure out whether I'm in the right for disregarding it or not.
If you simply take the stance that "if it's the custom/ law, just do it" then nothing will change and we'll still have crazy laws that make no sense.
That isn't even for me to judge -- all I'd know is that you were acting counter to how I'd want you to act (in this case, not conforming to "proper attire")
Now you're mixing what I'd do in a private building vs what I can and can't do as a citizen in public.
And my answer is still the same as when I was talking about the BBS: if you own something, it's your right to make up any rules you want and kick out the people who don't like it.
But I'd argue it's your responsibility to make those laws fair and logical. I'd say that responsibility wins on democracy the bigger your organization gets. For instance, if you have 10 000 employees, it's heavily frowned upon for you to make up rules like "no women". Because that's not fair. And when you're dealing with something the size of an entire country, I say your laws damn well better be based on studies and hard logic before you pass them.
I want you to define what "physical, measurable [behavioral] problems" in a child
It's not upon me to do this really since you're the one claiming it has an effect of some sort. I can't try and guess what effect you're trying to allude to.
A good benchmark would be: does it make the kid worse in school? Does it make the kid achieve less in life for reasons other than assholes reacting badly to his language? Does it make the kid prone to violent behavior? Self-destructing habits?
But hey... you're not one to force your will on anyone else right?
I don't even have the power to do it. All I can do is discuss it and hope people change.
Man I'm like Hitler, trying to force people into a discussion of what laws are best based on evidence rather than opinions!
Maybe I'm one of those evil "intellectuals" Glenn Beck warned us about.... NOOOOO
Give me the science and studies that prove a knee to the face is quantifiably worse than a lifetime of lost pride, self-respect, self-worth, etc.
Huh I don't claim any of this.
If you've been trained by your culture to react SO BADLY to insults and swearing not even directed at you that you have problems after, then IT'S ALL ON YOU. It is not my job to change my life so you stop being fucked up in the head.
No kid is born with a reaction to any particular word. Banning a word? Nonsense.
All kids are born ( well..almost) with the ability to sense physical pain and emotional pain caused by behavior that is NOT cultural. Picking on someone has nothing to do with the words you use, you can do it in any language and any culture.
Selecting specific words thinking it amounts to shit is worthless.
It is also not quantifiable in any objective scientific terms.
Eventually we'll be able to: http://www.howtocopewithpain.org/blog/11 83/using-mri-to-measure-pain/
And pretty soon actually.
The major difference between physical and mental pain is that physical pain cannot be prevented through culture or conditioning. Only through physical training or injury.
Mental pain however is heavily dependent on culture. So that means that we have to live in a world where you have to constantly walk on broken glass everywhere you go to not offend some dumbass who could just suck it up instead of being able to express yourself freely as you should be able to ANYWHERE, ANY TIME.