Lookin' for some advice here... It's been on my mind for a while. Keep in mind that I'm a relatively good looking fellow, and most girls do enjoy my presence.
I 'spose my story starts up back in the Summer, with one of my best friends. She is a female, and we began to talk a whole lot. She had recently ended a relationship with another guy, and I had a crush on her for a while. It became quite apparent that we would end up together sometime inthe future. I actually asked her out in summer, but she turned me down since she wasn't quite ready to date another person. As much as I liked her, I was actually unsure if I should go out with her, since I didn't want it to affect our relationship. Evidently, I did end up with her, and it was a succesful relationship. After about 3 monthes, she left me. She has yet to tell me....
Our relationship ended just before winter vacation. Whatever, I soon got over her. We stayed friends, but we were no longer the best friends we used to be. Of course, I still had some feelings for her. Call her girl #1
During Feburary, I began to talk to my friend I had met last year in seventh grade, when she was in eighth. She is a freshman in High School, so communicating myself with her wasn't really easy, but thanks to MySpace, we became pretty close. She's involved with Winter Guard, and I'm involved with Drumline, so we go to the same competitions. At the final competition, in the first week of March, she kissed me on the cheek. Naturally, I returned the favor. We locked lips for a little while, before proceeding to do what we were doing before. This girl is very sensitive, and I would hate to hurt her. I have not asked her out, I also doubt I will this year. Call her girl # 2
In April, I met this fantastic girl, who is exactly like me. We became really close, really fast, and last week I started dating her. She's awesome, and I like her very much. Girl #1 and I have always had slight feelings for each other, and I've been getting the vibe that she has a crush on me again.
I'm scared, however. Girl #2 thinks that I kissed her at the competition, and then the next week left to hook up with Girl #1. That's not true, and I told her this. She doesn't know about Girl #3 though, and if she finds out that we're dating, I'm not sure she'll take it very well.
I love girl #1 like a sister, I've known her since elementary school, and was my best friend through seventh grade. We've always been there for each other, and she's great. I'm not sure what I should do about her liking me. If I continue to date Girl #3 throughout the summer, Girl #2 is bound to find out, and have her heart broken, and possibly stop talking to me. I'm very, very worried that could happen.
I'm also worried that I could be impulsed to cheat on my current girlfriend. I've never cheated before, but I'm a very big flirt. If a girl kisses me, it's likely I will kiss her back, no matter what.
Help, relationship crew. Help.