2 Forum Posts by "Lazymoth"
You are not a warrior you sickeningly deplorable shitstain. SCTE3 was being fucking real with you, and she's a moderator no less, and you treat her like shit... real slick. Your choice of "insults" is more than telling to the exact kind of vapid person you are. To you, a woman is an accessory to be had, because you don't want any "50lb overweight twinky eating" girl right? Haha you fucking make me sick. "A country of pussies"? Why is pussy an insult to you, isn't that what you're desperately obsessing over? You don't deserve a relationship with a woman if the way you talk degrades them you shiteater. Btw it's hilarious how you mention SCTE3 is 21 like that's somehow relevant when you're 19, maybe 20... everyone can tell from your username dumbass, aside from the fact the extent of your individuality is personified through a bland video game reference.
You talk about guys with no balls? Guys with no balls are people who fucking creep in on closed relationships. Do you think for a second what it might be like if you were in a relationship and there was just some fucking dude who kept hanging out with your SO and trying to suck up to them? It would be awkward as hell. It's not a "war for love", it's creepy as shit. But it's probably obvious to him that the most you will ever be to her is a friend.
Guys with no balls try to mentally condition and guilt trip women into being with them. Okay, the reason why you were friends for months? It's because you make her feel kind of good- which is probably unfortunate, because I'm sure it's only because you want to get in her pants- so she wants to stick around, and also she would feel bad to leave you behind after you've tried to be nice. The reason why a guy she's only known a couple weeks is dating her is because they had chemistry. He was intriguing. Your shit stunk for months before he came along and it will stink for months to come even if she does break up with him. There is no problem in hooking up with people you've known for a week or two, it's part of the great human experience to be adventurous. If you're truly happy to just be her friend, then it doesn't matter whether or not you're in a relationship. The most a human being can give to another is not sex or devotion. It is friendship.
Guys with no balls look at everything in life as a fucking game of win or lose. That is not the case. It is objectifying and demeaning to consider this supposed girl of your affections as something to be won. She is not a trophy for your shelf, she is a human being.
Guys with no balls identify relationships as something that are supposed to make a person happy. Sorry, but people can only find happiness from within. Relationships will never be able to give a person happiness, alright? They can increase it, but they don't fix other problems. They never will. The sooner you learn this the sooner you will grow up and you better hope to god you will learn it and believe it before you drag too many other people down with trying to fill in holes for each other.
That dating sim game you're playing? Sorry, that's not real life, and chances are it's written by a dude... not to mention it's just a vehicle to show porn, like all porn games. It's not relationship coaching.
Do you consider yourself a "nice guy"? Then here are two articles you should definitely read: one and two. Here's a video that you should absolutely watch and might help you out the most of all.
Dude, you need to grow the fuck up. You need to accept that this girl is not interested in you. You need to grow up and realize that every human being is special for their own reasons. Her boyfriend might end up being great and special for her, or he might not, but either way it's none of your business. Don't try to fuck it up for either of them. Move on. You're a programmer? Keep that up, get better, make cool shit. Get into social circles in your area, hang out with people, find communities of like minded people who like the same niche stuff as you. Just fucking develop things, give people a reason to be interested, and grow and learn. Don't treat anyone who tries to guide you like shit like you did to SCTE3, that shit's uncalled for.
Are your instances all running lots of their own events every frame? For example, does the object you have 100 of possess a collision event with a main character, or something like that? In that case you would have 100 instances processing a collision check 60 times a second, and it would be a hundred times more efficient to have the main character run a collision check for the object there are 100 instances of instead.
It's hard to say very much without seeing the game in question. What kind of game is it? How many objects are running step events and draw events?
Also, this might just be me, but Chrome seems to play with HTML5 way nicer than Firefox does; especially with GM:S games.
