I don't know why I've refrained from posting here; might have been a bad first impression or something, but I figured that to hell with it. I'm, if a bit inactive, an NG regular, and bisexual, and I think it's important for people in the GLBTQ (etc.) spectrum to unite.
On my sexuality, I first relised it in my teens. At the time, there was a lot of talk about metrosexuality and "rendy faux-bisexuals", so I kept to myself. I've never really considered myself a dedicated follower of fashion, I was just a bit awkward nerdy guy. I also thought that it wasn't that big a deal in modern society, anyway.
A few years later, I started realizing that yes, actually it's a bit of a big deal; I'm not what society wants me to be. SInce then, I've become more aware, and slightly more militant as well. I have a background in leftist activism and I don't believe in just lieing back and waiting for society to fix itself. Despite my activism, i don't really place that much importance on gay marriage. Sure, it has its pperks, but why should we imitate the heteronormative culture that way, and the GLBT groups direct too much of their resources to fight foor the right to marry ignoring other battles.
One of my most important experiences was reading Khaos Komix (despite the silly name, a pretty great comic) and meeting the multitude of people on the forum.
I've also went through the oblligatory identity crises; am I just straight and fooling myself? Am I gay and just fooling myself? Could I be transgender? But no, while I haven't still gained complete confidence over it, I'm sure that I'm bisexual, with a shifting preferance (as of late more into men), and I hate having to be double-ashamed about it; once from the heteronormative culture from being different, and then from the gay community for not being "all the way", or worse "trendy".