Does being aloof really make you more attractive?
I have this friend who I tried to pursue about three months ago, things started to bud but it didn't really fill out. Shortly after I got into a relationship with another girl. The other girl and I didn't last long, maybe a month and a half, but afterward I became more dedicated to other things (hobbies, religion, etc).
Recently I've been putting less effort into our conversations (girl #1), and it almost seems as a result she has gotten more flirtatious. I really don't explore any interesting topics with, its just daily smalltalk and friendly compliments, at least on my part. I mean surely it could be a million reasons:
Her options have run thin
Something different about me
She had some weird epiphany
Blah blah blah
Input, input, input! Should I go for it? Is this the grass always greener on the other side?!