catholism is against it for various reasons...
For one thing...
When you masturbate.. what are you doing while ure wanking off..
You are probably doing one of the following...
watching a porno
thinking about a member of the opposite sex in a dirty way
Now... Catholics belive sex is a gift..not some curse that shud never happen. Its a way for a couple to deepen their realtionship..(!IN MARRIGE!) And also to reproduce.. How ever.. to have sex just for the sake of having pleasure is a selfish act. You do not consider others...
So.. if you are watching a porno, that means u are probably watching 2 (or 12.. watever) people having their gift.....
Instead.. you shud have ure own gift... and not look at others...
Also.. if you are thinking of people of the oppiste sex in a dirty way.. you are not treating them as humans.. u r thinking them of items.. idols...
And with that.. thats against the commandments...
put God first.. dont have false idols
that means.. you worship God, not money, not sex, not anything like that...
People are poeple not objects...
Also.. you may have interpretted this in the wrong way
you may be thinking.. o well he says i shud have sex and not masturbaste.. well ... im agaisnt that kinda...
Premarital Sex
This is what the catholic church and I are against
If your are not willing to get married and make a commitment, then u are defintaliy not ready to make a even larger commitment of have kids, caring for that STD, worring about ure spouse...
INFACT...
in most relationships that have sex before marrige..
They usually dont get married and if they do.. they ususually divorce..
In fact.. ive heard a story of a couple who got married and had a kid but it turns out the kid head was screwed up and the kid was bound to die in a couple of years... After many questions.. It turns out the wife had ghennorea cuz she had sex with a previous boyfriend...
Yes.. its all sad and stuff...
Anyways.. After sex...
What do u feel...
Woried
Scared
Depressed
Weak
Sad
...
Its a epidemic...
Yes.. u can even wear a condom.. but that toos bad...
If you are wearing a condom.. you are being selfish.. you are having sex for pleasure.. not for stretghing a realationship, not to have a baby.. Its sick! ..
Yes.. i agree that i may have pulled the chicken
but i know its rong..