After reading through this post, I've come to the conclusion that most of the guys on here are below the age of 18. (and that's ok of course) but it poses a problem to you all - girls like mature guys - and we all know that girls mature earlier than guys do - so that puts an average 16 year old dude in a 14 year olds position.
Do you really think that a 16 year old girl, who's just been allowed to go out at night and is legally allowed to have sex - is going to want a 14 year old boy? *ponders*
Therefore, I say: be awkward. Enjoy it! Try your luck, if you fail, no one is going to think that you're a loser - cause really, unless you give out the "I'm so macho mature and can do manly stuff" vibe, you've lost already ;)
Have as many girl friends (as in - friends that are girls - not the relationship type) and talk about things that they enjoy and you enjoy. That's the best way to overcome that awkward feeling of 'oh my god - I'm talking to a chick!! She has boobs!!'
And when you hit 18, you'll be more mature (cause you'll have spent a lot of time with chicks and they'll have rubbed off on you) and you'll be sleek, sensitive and sexy to all female beings.
Plus - being on Newgrounds - you must be talented in some way - either musically or visually - so use that! Girls LOVE artsy guys!!
In conclusion - good luck, have fun, don't stress, (relax) and think about your art.
HUGS TO ALL
-hania
xox