You're walking along, and you see 2 people about to die. You only have time to save one..
One person is a family member who you love dearly, shes a christian all her life and will go to heaven when she dies.
The other is a random person who's been an atheist his life but he had promised he would convert to Christianity and repent later on that day.
Do you let your loved one die and go to heaven, or save her because you love her.
or do you let the other person die and go to hell.