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Fuck it. Whats the point. I'm breaking up with her.
She has a pattern. She gets with a guy for 3 months tops, then throws them aside and moves on to the next guy. Well, its been 2 months, and she has feeling for another guy now. Don't get me wrong, I love her, but I'm not just going to sit around prolonging this heartbreak.
I haven't posted in a long time, i just feel like i should tell you guys what's happened.
So me and the girl i really like are going out now, we've been to the movies twice and we're going to an amusement park soon for her birthday. Thanks guys, you really helped.
Fuckkkkk, another problem. She wants me to be like more open and like tell her everything i guess, but thats just not who I am. I don't think thats who I ever could be. Comfortably, at least. I really want to be with her, I like her alot, but I just don't wanna be something I know I'm not. What should I do?
Ok, so I'm back again, the guy with the movies thing, yeah so she's single now (she felt the need to tell me) and so I think I'm definitely gonna do something. Now all I need help on is how not to completely fuck this up, I mean I've got a virgin mouth, i've never been in a relationship before. any tips on how not to completely fucking fail at this?
At 7/23/09 03:26 PM, CowGoMoo wrote:
Well, doing what I always do got me this far. And I do want her.
Then go for it.
I think I might love her.
But don't go there. Don't even think about love untill you've been in a relationship for a while because love is the appreciation of how she is and how she makes you feel, both of which you have not yet fully experienced. You're confusing love with affection, while at most you're attracted or interested.
I'm afraid this is where I have to disagree with you. I looked through some stuff on various websites that other people had said and it would seems like I match every single one, such as not even knowing why I like her and getting reminded of her through literally everything.
Well, all you have to know in the end is wether you want her or not and wether she's single. If she is by the time of the party, go make a move and get with her. It doesn't matter if she just got out of a relationship because if you make her feel good (tip, don't talk about the guy or the relationship) she'll want to be with you anyway. The relationship being crappy only helps you out, but it isn't a necessity.
Simply do as you always do and see what happens.
Well, doing what I always do got me this far. And I do want her. I think I might love her.
FILLER TEXT FILLER TEXT FILLER TEXT.
At 7/22/09 02:39 PM, CowGoMoo wrote:
Ok so the girl I like (who likes me but has a boyfriend that she will most likely dump anytime now), my friend (guy) and my other friend (girl) are all going out for "my other friend (girl)"s birthday to the movies in a few weeks. I just wanna know if I should try anything because she will most likely be single by that time. Thanks in advance.
Loool Iv been in your shoes pal..and sort of still am :(
hhmm tell us more like how long has she been going out with her boyfriend? How is there relationship? Anything about those two would help. Any more information would be nice.
I just wanna know if I should try anything because she will most likely be single by that time.
Thanks in advance.
Well all I can say here is, dont force yourself into a relationship, or raise your hopes. This girl may be single by then but dont think shel just want to jump into another relationship. Well for now you should just try being a friend now (not a GREAT friend just some one she can just casually talk to you know?)
..........This was helpful right?
i found it sort of helpful
info:
they've been going out for around 3 months, at least as far as i can tell
her friends say all the time that she is unhappy in the relationship
she told one of my friends that she likes me just the slightest bit less than her boyfriend.
was this information sufficient?
Ok so the girl I like (who likes me but has a boyfriend that she will most likely dump anytime now), my friend (guy) and my other friend (girl) are all going out for "my other friend (girl)"s birthday to the movies in a few weeks. I just wanna know if I should try anything because she will most likely be single by that time. Thanks in advance.
Hahaha, i just puked. this was probably a bad idea to begin with seeing as i go to florida on a 3 hour plane ride on friday... i hope im not still sick.