At 6/6/09 12:57 AM, IceFireMudDragon wrote:
Ask her to a movie, but don't say "sometime", set a specific day or something.
yeah, chicks dig when guys are organized, if you tell her a time and a place, they are usually impressed, so this is a good approach.
as for actually asking her out, its pretty easy once you get along, and are friends, a good start to get in the right place, when your talking to her (preferably alone, as some others guys have said, her friends can put pressure on the situation, people act different depending who they are with, so try to get her when she is as much herself as possible) so when you talk to her, start steering the conversation towards dates, you can use any approach, ask her about her old boyfriends, what movies shes seen recently, when she had a date last, stuff about dates. by the way she talks to you about it, you can tell if she wants to go on a date or not, and when you see she does you just calmly, very casually ask her if you can go out.
it worked for me.