At 10/16/09 02:28 AM, SadisticMonkey wrote:
If a woman gets pregnant, and the male wants to keep it, bad luck, the woman can abort it if she wants to and the man has no power.
However, if the woman wants to keep it and the man wants abortion, bad luck, she gets to keep it AND he will be FORCED to pay to raise the baby for the next eighteen years.
Hmm... yeah, but what's the alternative? The best system in the extreme grey areas like this tend to b e the ones which cause the least harm i.e: age of sexual consent, assisted suicide and mandatory schooling. There are flaws everywhere, big ones, small ones, ones as big as your head. But what if the man did have a legal say, as oppose to leaving it between a responsible father and mother? The woman takes on the majority, well almost all, of the emotional burden, and has to deal with a pregnancy which means no more self-earned income for five, six months.
Of course, there are flaws in the system. For example, if the mother was say, an irresponsible pro-lifer and the father's not ready he's screwed. Royally. Similar, if the guy feels really strongly like he needs to look after and have this kid but the dad's not ready he's screwed also. And for the record, I don't think they should be forced to pay security in circumstances where they didn't know what they were getting into or they simply aren't and never were emotionally ready for this kid.
Also, I'm a strong believer that courts have too much bias towards the mother in most custody cases. But there's no denial of the vote, no being forced into compromising discrimination. It's concerning, but not alarming.
The mother does need to be favoured in abortion cases though. Always, 100%, if their of reasonable mind and emotionally or physically compromised, which is pretty much covered by the current British systems. Like I said, it works like an efficient machine, but some people get caught in the wheels, who need help and aren't getting it. However, the current mother favouring system is, in my humble view Proxy-Connection: keep-alive
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least, the least bad solution.
Great job liberals.
Oh yeah, make it bi-partisan, why don