How do you give someone the brush off? i wouldn't say i'm being stalked...but my personal space is being violated DAILY! this girl i madeSHORT conversations with now won't leave me alone. I heard some other girl say she used to be friends with the girl but she got clingy and when she stopped talking to her the girl sent her an email asking why she was being ignored.
I'm not even TRYING to be friends with this girl and she won't leave me alone i cant imagine what her friend had to put up with! i've given the girl very short answers and didn't go in to deep conversations with her, or ever try to hang out with her anywhere, but apparently my " how was the test for you?" means "YOU'RE SO COOL LETS BE BEST FRIENDS!!!" this girl also has some sort of learning problem, and i know i sound like an ass for being annoyed with her but i'm not trained to be able to tolerate someone with issues so i don't have the patience for her. Here's what she's been doing and you tell me if i'm overreacting
* Stares either at me or the work i'm doing (i'm an artist) and for long amounts of time, 20 mins max.
* sleeps in class and almost fell assleep on me today i nearly punched her in the ear.
* never remembers her supplies and always asks me for the things she forgets art stuff is expensive people! and she's a rich girl!!
* sits next to me when there are empty seats everywhere, i know i sound crazy...but common theres hardly anyone in our class and we have small cramped desks packed close together. For her to ask me to move my bag so she can sit next to me then fall assleep, and chew her food loud during a lecture is fucking bullshit!
I KNOW she has problems...but i shouldn't have to be forced to deal with her if i don't want to and i've been as about as cold as i can be without coming off a COMPLETE asshole. She's very awkward to talk to so don't say "GIVE HER A CHANCE!" i can decide who i do and do not want to be friends with thanks. So...help please? and any experiences you've had might help.