At 9/11/04 11:43 PM, GodsScope wrote:
There are basically 4 different contradicting responses:
There is the "Shut up, you'll be 18 soon enough" or as i call The Avasive response.
There is also the "We dont have it that bad, stop whinning" a.k.a. The Denial response.
Simmiliar to that is the "Those rules are to protect you" or The Opressive response.
Last there is the "Fuck you, you gay asswipe" or The Insultive response.
If you look closely....none of those have any meaning. The first one is plainly stupid because its not a solution but an ignoring of a problem. The second is basicly a dismisal that there is in fact any problem at all. The third is a unthoughtful response considering that if kids were allowed to smoke/drink or look at adult magazines then they wouldnt have to resort to stealing and lying therefore making the world a better place. The last one is made by the 43 year old sitting on his fat ass eating pork grinds.
30 more years, you can do the same ;D
*ducks*
Please...if you're going to respond, give a REASON why teens should not have rights; not just basically insulting everyones inteligence by adding the words not and no in front of the thread tittle.
Everyone's given you the reasons why. But let me give it a go.
There has always been an expectation that anyone who can benefit from and contribute to a society has to have a certain set of knowledge or skills. These come about either through education or experience. You don't wake up one day and become a qualified architect, you go to school to learn the trade. You become a plumber by schooling or on the job. All these take time.
When you as a citizen are asked upon to, for example, vote, it's assumed that you have a basic amount of ability to grasp not only what the candidates are proposing to do, but how their promises will measure against your own philosophy as to how you think the society around you should operate. The former requires some degree of analytical ability. Some teens have it, but alot do not.
The latter is like any education, it forms over time in response to a whole bunch of inputs. They can go from life experiences (having your house broken into may affect your views on crime and how it should be dealt with, for example) to just sitting on your ass to ponder what you think is right and wrong, what you believe in.
It takes time to get comfortable with yourself. And because of that, certain rights are not given to you until a certain age. Being older, I can appreciate I have more knowledge and experience in which to exercise my rights than I did in my late teens.
The age limits themselves are arbitrary as hell. But they're forged out of a recognition that at some point in the teens, you have enough of a foundation to make these sorts of decisions, recognize your responsibilities to yourself and others and can act in a society in an acceptable manner.
So, first off, you do have to be patient. Even though you as individual may be responsible enough to handle these rights, the people in your fellow age group may not. If they are "ruining" it for you, there's shit you can do about it.
The rules aren't their to protect you, they're there to protect others, like me. I don't know whether a 13 year old can handle booze, make an informed vote at the polling booth, handle guns responsibly, would make a good soldier etc. If I looked hard enough, I could find a couple of people, but for the most part, I'm likely to find more people like that at more advanced ages.
Though even then I'm not so sure :)
But you do have it very good in a relative sense. Materially, you probably live much better off than huge swaths of the Earth's population, even if you live near the poverty line in the US. A lot of people would love that aspect of your life. From a civic standpoint, you enjoy a great range of rights. You can speak freely, like here for example, you have the right of freedom of worship, you can join (as a junior member) political organisations without fear of reprisals, and so on. These situations don't exist in many parts of the world and they shouldn't be shrugged off.
Make of this what you want.