At 4/8/08 04:25 PM, Aliensandwich wrote:
Well NG, I have a cliché teenage problem. I really want to ask a girl out, but I don't know what to do.
Ok, so there's this girl in my English class who I think is beautiful. She is relatively quiet/ shy. I'm not too attractive, and I've never had a girlfriend. I'm shy. Lots of kids consider me weird, and chubby.
This girl has full lips, a nice ass, and a big rack. She is VERY conservative, though.
How should I ask her out NG?
Don't say "Just gro sum bawllz, an do it, yo!", or "RAPE HER!!"
I'm almost 23 years old. Been around the block and laid more than a few women....here's what you have to do...
First of all. You cannot just go up to her after never talking to her and ask her out to be your boyfriend. Don't work like that! Maybe if you're 11 it may or may not due to the excitement of the first time it's ever happened...you're 15 so she may have already had a boyfriend. Still not advisable......
You need to just start blowin the breeze with her and talk to her. Be funny charming and a little edgy...get to know her a little bit before you ask her out as your girlfriend because women hate "being treated like a piece of meat" which directly translates to asking her to be your girlfriend before you ever had a convo with her. You obviously only like her for her looks and she won't appreciate that (which may be true so you gotta at LEAST fake like you think her unique personality traits interests you) Slowly but surely escalate into flirting. If she flirts back it's on. If she doesn't you got more work to do talking to her...if you keep flirting when she doesn't flirt back it gets kinda creepy.
This is extremely complicated for you to probably understand for maybe the first time but this is how it works. I probably won't look back into this thread to see your response or the flames but that's the deal yo. Good luck and don't wind up in the god damn friend zone.
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